Are young adults skipping marriage and children despite rising wages and wealth?
Core argument: The Institute for Family Studies projects that one-third of today's young adults will never marry, compared with less than one-fifth of those born in previous decades.
Median wages for full-time workers ages 35 to 44 are up 16% between 2000 and 2024, from $58,522 to $67,652 adjusted for inflation, according to the Labor Department. The overall wealth of 30-somethings, too, rose 66% between 1989 and 2022, according to the St. Louis Federal Reserve, from $62,000 to $103,000. 1/3 of today’s young adults will never marry, projects the Institute for Family Studies, compared to less than a 1/5 of those born in previous decades. The share of childless adults under 50 who say they are unlikely to ever have kids, meanwhile, rose 10 percentage points between 2018 and 2023, from 37% to 47%, according to Pew Research Center. “We’re moving from later to never,” says Richard Reeves. He notes that the longer people take to launch into a more conventional adulthood, the less likely they are to do it at all. Nearly 9% of those aged 30 to 40 still live with their parents, according to Pardue’s analysis of Census data, up from nearly 6% in 1990.


